A friend I went to middle & high school with & whose daughter is due a day AFTER Elatia, found out today she is having a granddaughter. We don't find out until Tuesday. I am so excited, I'm beside myself! Me, meet the other me, the one standing beside myself!
Not that I would be disappointed with a granddaughter, no way! I would be disappointed in myself and what I have been feeling but not having a granddaughter. I would be so shocked if we have a granddaughter is all. I mean between what Martin has been saying for quite sometime BEFORE Elatia was pregnant about a grandson, and then me seeing Andrew with his nephew, the Chinese calendar, and the baby's (Christian) ;-) great grandmother on J.R.'s side making a pendulum (geez we have a ton of them, she didn't need to make one!) to swing over Elatia's belly and sayin it's a boy, I'd be very surprised if she was having a girl. Like I said before, and don't care how cliche it sounds, but after what we have been through, all we care about is a healthy grandchild! That's all we really want!
So Tuesday we go to find out for sure what we are having. We are going to video tape it all! I want this on tape! Me, Martin, Elatia, J.R. and his mother are going. A friend told me about this place that is a prenatal spa. Elatia is getting a scan and a massage. We get a cd of pics of the scan. Then we go to lunch and after that we register for the baby shower, All of us! Did I mention how excited I am?!
Elatia bought a fetal heart monitor and has been spending a lot of time listening to the sounds inside her uterus. Her placenta, her pulse, her baby's heart beat when she can find it. She said she can hear the baby moving, even if she can't feel him move, she is able to hear him. That is so cool! I didn't have a cool gadget like that when I was pregnant. Glad she does, she sent me a link to hear his heart beat. As faint as it was, I could hear it. It was so surreal, still trying to wrap my head around all this. The odds of her getting pregnant were slim after having a rare ovarian tumor that Western med wanted to treat as an aggressive form of ovarian cancer, so to have this experience is amazing! There are so many emotions I am going through, especially as we approach Andrew's 3rd anniversary of his journey Home.
I am so proud of how Elatia is handling this pregnancy. She meditates and sends energy to the baby. That's my girl! I'm hoping that she will allow Martin to do hypnotherapy with her while she is in labor. She is his fav subject because she goes under so easily.
While it's still hard to believe we actually have a "new" soul, meaning, we probably go way back and have known each other many life times, coming into our family, it's going to get a little more real on Tuesday! AWESOME! Canni wait! Knowing what we know now about souls coming here, makes it that much more exciting!
IT'S ALL GOOD IN THE GRAMMY-HOOD!
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